Catholic marriage and intimacy blog
Honest, faithful answers to the questions couples rarely ask out loud. Every article shows its sources, so you can read the Church's own words.
Theology of the Body explained simply for married couples
Theology of the Body explained in plain words, how your body speaks the language of self-giving love, and what that changes in an ordinary marriage this week.
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CCC 2366
Is oral sex a sin in Catholic marriage? What the Church actually teaches
No Church document names oral sex. Here is what Catholic teaching does say, how moral theologians apply it to marriage, and where they honestly disagree.
CCC 2360
What can Catholic couples do in bed? Morality of positions, foreplay and toys
The Church gives principles, not a rulebook. What Catholic teaching says about positions, foreplay and devices, and where moral theologians differ.
CCC 2354
Rebuilding trust after pornography in a Catholic marriage
How Catholic couples rebuild trust after pornography, with honest disclosure, a real recovery plan, boundaries, forgiveness that takes time, and grace.
Libido mismatch in a Catholic marriage, 7 practical steps
A libido mismatch is common in Catholic marriages. Seven practical steps, from medical checks to an agreed rhythm, grounded in Church teaching and kindness.
AL 154
Intimacy after birth, when and how to come back together (with NFP postpartum)
When can you resume intimacy after birth? Wait for your clinician, go slowly, watch for pain and low mood, and learn a postpartum NFP protocol first.
CCC 1657
Catholic prayer for husband and wife
Short Catholic prayers for husband and wife to pray together, plus simple ways to start when it feels awkward and why couple prayer matters.
Pre-Cana online, how to choose a marriage prep course your parish accepts
Before you pay for any online Pre-Cana course, ask your parish what it accepts. What to ask, what a good course covers, and the red flags to avoid.
CCC 2350
Catholic sex before marriage, what the Catechism says and why
What the Catechism teaches about sex before marriage, why the Church asks engaged couples to wait, and how to start over with mercy if you already have.
Natural Family Planning for beginners, the 4 methods compared (Creighton, Billings, Sympto-Thermal, Marquette)
A plain guide to the four main NFP methods, which fertility signs each one reads, who each tends to suit, and how to learn one well with an instructor.
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