A Couples Program for Catholic marriages
Five guided programs of 8 weeks each, for the seasons when intimacy gets hard, and a private consultation with a Catholic counselor every 3 months. Faithful to Church teaching, practical from the first week.
$24 /month
Billed $288 yearly
What the Couples Program includes
Everything in Membership, plus the guided help couples ask for when reading alone is not enough.
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5 guided programs
Rekindle, Libido Mismatch, Postpartum Intimacy, Rebuilding Trust after Porn and Engaged, Preparing for the Wedding Night.
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A consultation every 3 months
A private 30 minute video call with a Catholic therapist, sex therapist or NFP instructor, booked in your dashboard. 4 a year on the yearly plan.
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Ask with Sources, 300 a month
Questions answered from the Catechism and Church documents, in one thread you share as a couple.
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NFP chart review
Bring your cycle notes to a consultation and go through them with an instructor.
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Certificate for the Engaged program
A completion certificate you can show your parish during marriage preparation.
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Everything in Membership
The full library, every self paced course, the monthly live expert Q&A and your private couple space.
Five programs, eight weeks each
Pick the one that fits the season you are in. Each week has a lesson, an exercise and a conversation card.
Rekindle
For couples whose closeness has grown routine or distant.
For married couples whose intimacy has grown routine or distant after years together. Over eight weeks you take honest stock without blame, rebuild friendship, attention and affection, learn to talk about desire, and close with a simple rule of life that keeps your marriage close and prayerful.
8 weeks- Wk 1 Taking stock without blame
- Wk 2 Friendship and attention
- Wk 3 Daily rituals of connection
- Wk 4 Non-sexual touch and affection
- Wk 5 Talking about desire
- Wk 6 Romance and dates
- Wk 7 Prayer as a couple and the sacrament
- Wk 8 A rule of life for your marriage
Libido Mismatch
For couples where one spouse wants intimacy more often than the other.
For married couples where one spouse wants intimacy more often than the other and both feel stuck, hurt or misunderstood. Over eight weeks you will name the pattern without blame, rule out medical causes, understand how desire actually works, and agree on a rhythm of intimacy that honors both of you and the teaching of the Church.
8 weeks- Wk 1 Naming the Pattern Without Blame
- Wk 2 Spontaneous and Responsive Desire
- Wk 3 Ruling Out Medical Causes
- Wk 4 Stress, Sleep and the Mental Load
- Wk 5 The Pursuer and Distancer Cycle
- Wk 6 Asking and Declining With Love
- Wk 7 Agreeing on a Rhythm, Including NFP Periods
- Wk 8 Keeping the Gains
Postpartum Intimacy
For new parents coming back together after a birth.
An eight week program for Catholic couples in the first year after a birth. It walks you gently through healing, mood, shared work, affection, natural family planning and the return of marital intimacy, so that your marriage grows stronger as your family grows.
8 weeks- Wk 1 A New Season
- Wk 2 Healing and the Clinician's Clearance
- Wk 3 A Mood Check for Both Parents
- Wk 4 Sharing the Load
- Wk 5 Touch and Affection Without Pressure
- Wk 6 NFP After Birth With an Instructor
- Wk 7 The First Time Again
- Wk 8 Your Marriage Beyond the Baby
Rebuilding Trust after Porn
For couples healing after pornography broke trust.
For a married couple where one spouse has used pornography and both want to heal. Over eight weeks you move from shock and secrecy toward honesty, a concrete recovery plan, healthy boundaries, real repair conversations and, at a pace the betrayed spouse sets, a slow return to closeness. This program is meant to walk alongside a qualified counselor, never to replace one.
8 weeks- Wk 1 Where We Are and How We Will Walk
- Wk 2 Honest Disclosure with Support
- Wk 3 Hearing the Betrayed Spouse's Pain
- Wk 4 The Recovering Spouse's Plan
- Wk 5 Boundaries and Transparency
- Wk 6 Repair Conversations and Forgiveness
- Wk 7 Relapse Planning and Grace
- Wk 8 Slowly Restoring Closeness
Engaged, Preparing for the Wedding Night
For engaged couples in marriage preparation.
An eight week program for engaged couples in marriage preparation, designed for use at home or with a parish sponsor couple. Through short teachings, conversations and prayer, you will talk honestly about chastity, your histories, natural family planning, the wedding night and your first year, so that you arrive at your wedding with peace, realistic expectations and a shared plan.
8 weeks- Wk 1 Why the Church cares about your wedding night
- Wk 2 The vows and the body
- Wk 3 Chastity during engagement
- Wk 4 Families of origin, past wounds and expectations
- Wk 5 NFP basics and choosing a method
- Wk 6 What to expect on the wedding night
- Wk 7 Talking about sex in marriage
- Wk 8 Your first year plan and prayer
How one week works
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Watch or read the lesson
A short lesson for the week, faithful to Church teaching and practical, with Catechism references.
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Do the exercise
One small, concrete thing to try together during the week, chosen for where you are now.
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Use the conversation card
A few gentle questions that help you talk about something you might otherwise avoid.
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Check in together
Mark the week done, note what helped and move on when you are both ready.
A Catholic counselor every 3 months
Some things are easier to sort out with a professional who shares your faith and will not ask you to set it aside.
- Length
- 30 min
- How often
- 1 per quarter
- Yearly plan
- 4 a year
- A Catholic therapist for communication, conflict and healing
- A Catholic sex therapist for desire, pain and practical questions
- A certified NFP instructor to review your charts
Booked in your dashboard, held by private video call. A consultation is guidance, not emergency care.
Membership or Couples Program
Both plans cover one couple with two logins.
| Included | Membership | Couples Program |
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| Library and all self paced courses | Yes | Yes |
| Monthly live expert Q&A | Yes | Yes |
| Ask with Sources questions per month | 100 | 300 |
| Guided 8 week programs | No | All 5 |
| Private consultations | No | 1 every 3 months |
| NFP chart review | No | Yes |
| Engaged program certificate | No | Yes |
Couples Program questions
How long does a program take?
Each program has 8 weeks. One week takes most couples an evening for the lesson and a few short moments during the week for the exercise and the conversation card. You can pause and pick up where you left off.
Can we do more than one program?
Yes. All five programs are included in the Couples Program plan, so you can finish one and start another, or take a program again in a later season of your marriage.
Who leads the consultations?
A Catholic therapist, a Catholic sex therapist or a certified NFP instructor, depending on what you need. You choose the kind of help when you book a time in your dashboard.
How many consultations do we get?
One private 30 minute video consultation every 3 months. On the yearly plan that is 4 consultations a year. A consultation you have used stays used for that period, even if you later cancel the booking.
Is this therapy?
The programs are formation and practical guidance, not therapy. A consultation is a focused conversation with a professional who shares your faith. If you face abuse, a crisis or a medical problem, contact emergency services, your doctor or your pastor right away.
Does the Engaged program count for marriage preparation?
You receive a completion certificate you can show your parish. Each diocese and parish decides which programs it accepts, so ask your priest or marriage prep coordinator first.
Do we both need an account?
The plan includes two logins for one couple. You share a reading list, program progress and a question thread, and each of you can keep private notes.
Start your first week together
Choose a program tonight and book your first consultation when you are ready.